Went to a wedding dinner on Saturday night aka mid-Autumn festival at chijmes and it was oh-so-nice! i like the place and it was nice to see my ex-neighbors whom we haven't met for >6years? The kids i used to play with have grown up, so am i to them.
The couple only came out twice before they went around to "yum seng" and the bride had two dresses for the night. There wasn't much entertainment or programmes except for the cake cutting and re-enactment of how the groom proposed. The event probed me thinking what others say about such dinner as a fashion show, but it didn't happen in this case. I do admit that the couple seldom had the time to have a proper meal but i thought the happiness in them was real and the event was just an approach they adopted to treat friends and families in celebration of their matrimony.
There wasn't element to be showy or to custom the event to be a performance and i thought it was a pleasant night. While getting married is a bond between a couple, the strings attached can be extensive, take the simplest example: to invite family members of the couple, even when you have the slightest idea of who he or she is.However, it's still a wonderful thing to happen in life and i really saw the smiles beyond the many faces. Funnily, as i walked down the aisle to my seat, i feel oh so shy! :3
While i still think that getting married and the process to settle the small things for it is beautiful,practical issues like what your closed ones view your counterpart matters to me. The previous sentence is a lousy connection from the previous paragraph but my main idea is to lead what i am going to say next.On the same night, my grandparents invited the bf over for dinner. It was a nice gesture and i really appreciated their effort. This time round, the bf went with his dyed hair, no black spray like last time. I told grandma about it before he went and she just laughed and say it's preferable to be black, so i thought it's fine. Just now, dad came in and said my uncle commented that how could an army officer dye such color and dad added:" you see how they condemn it?" i should think that he's speaking more for himself instead of my uncle. Aye aye, as long as grandpa doesn't have comment, i think it's fine.
Sometimes we just can't avoid what the adults think and even simple thing like dyed hair can be topic for sarcasm.
dramaM0M0; |10:02 PM|